Berlin's unique meeting place for fetish and community

Since its founding on November 6, 1996, Böse Buben e.V. has been Germany's gay association for flagellation and diverse forms of sexuality.

Located on the edge of Schöneberg, conveniently close to the Südkreuz S-Bahn and train stations at Sachsendamm 76-77, the club offers a unique platform for men of all ages who want to enjoy imaginative, responsible sex in a respectful environment.

An association with a mission

Böse Buben e.V. sees itself not only as an event venue, but also as a community that promotes education and exchange. The association is committed to a positive approach to sexuality, offers space for experimentation, and supports members and visitors with questions about their preferences. With a clear “no” to reprisals, racism, and discrimination of any kind, the Bösen Buben create an environment where diversity and respect are paramount. Visitors from all over Europe and the world appreciate the open atmosphere and the opportunity to discover new things – whether through the art of pleasurable spanking or other facets of SM.

Events: Diversity without a dress code

At least five times a week, the club opens its doors to a wide range of events – from casual sex parties to themed evenings such as the “FEET Club” for foot fetishists to intense fist and spanking events. The lack of a strict dress code makes the parties particularly inviting: whether in sneakers, leather, or completely naked, at the Bösen Buben, everyone stands out in their own way. Highlights such as the monthly long-term fisting party or the “Fight Club” for wrestlers and boxers regularly attract an international audience. There are gentle introductions for newcomers, while experienced members can live out their passion to the fullest.

Support in challenging times

The community showed its solidarity during the coronavirus pandemic: over €40,000 in donations helped the club survive the closures. These funds are now being used to improve the clubhouse, for example through thermal insulation and ventilation, to ensure a safe and pleasant atmosphere in the future. Donations are still welcome, even though the club cannot issue receipts – a sign of the special commitment of its supporters.

A counterpoint to commercialization

With affordable prices and a focus on time, space, and a creative atmosphere, Böse Buben e.V. deliberately sets itself apart from the commercialized scene. “We are more than a club – we are a place where people come together to live out their fantasies and inspire each other,” says Martin from the club's board.

Böse Buben e.V. remains an integral part of Berlin's subculture and invites everyone to become part of this special community.