Böse Buben – Berlin’s Meeting Place for Men, Fetish and Community

Since November 6, 1996, Böse Buben e.V. has been a firm part of Berlin’s gay subculture. Our club house at Sachsendamm is a place for men who love, desire and celebrate with men – with a passion for connection, fetish and the many different ways of experiencing sexuality.

A Place for Men

Böse Buben e.V. is a gay association and a men-centred meeting place. Men of different ages and with a wide range of interests come together here to experience their sexuality in a self-determined, imaginative and responsible way.

What brings us together is the pleasure of meeting others, mutual consent and treating one another with respect. You don’t have to fit a particular idea of what a man should be. It’s about giving yourself and others room to be who they are.

More Than a Club

Böse Buben is an association, a community and a place for exchange. We see ourselves as part of a vibrant queer scene, creating space for encounters, conversations and shared experiences.

Our visitors come from Berlin, Germany and many other countries. They appreciate the personal atmosphere, the variety of our events and the opportunity to meet people with similar interests.

Respect, mutual consent and treating one another without discrimination are the foundation of our community. We stand for open-minded, self-determined and diverse sexuality – and for a place where men can feel welcome and safe.

Fetish, Sex and Play

Our club house opens its doors at least five times a week. Our programme offers space for a wide range of interests and forms of play: from relaxed sex parties and fetish nights such as the FEET Club to Fist, Spanking and other themed events.

Whether you wear sneakers, leather or nothing at all – there is no dress code to dictate your style. Our events welcome men with different levels of experience and all kinds of interests. Those new to the scene can take their first steps; those who have been around for a long time will find room to pursue their passions.

Our programme includes regular party series as well as special events such as the monthly Long-Term Fisting Party and the Fight Club for wrestlers and boxers.

A Community That Sticks Together

The importance of our community became especially clear during the COVID-19 pandemic. More than €40,000 in donations helped the association get through the closures.

That solidarity continues to this day. We invest in maintaining and improving our club house – so that a welcoming, safe and lively place for our community can continue to exist in the future.

More Than a Business

Böse Buben e.V. is an association. Our aim is to maintain a place where men can spend time together, make connections and experience their sexuality beyond performance pressure and commercial expectations.

We believe in fair prices, a personal atmosphere and a club house shaped by the community, for the community. Many people volunteer their time and help keep the club running.

Böse Buben is more than a club.

We are a place for men who seek men. For fetish, friendship, pleasure and shared experiences. A piece of Berlin’s gay subculture – since 1996.